When the Cat Comes Too: Hosting Grandkids AND Their Feline Friend

Peyton and Whiskers

So, the Cat's Coming Too?

You were expecting hugs, giggles, and maybe some spilled juice. But you didn’t expect Whiskers, your grandkids’ wide-eyed tabby, to jump out of the carrier and make herself at home on your couch. Surprise! Hosting grandkids is one thing, but hosting them and their beloved feline companion? That’s next-level grandparenting.

My parents strictly prohibited additional animals from staying overnight. When we moved from Chicago to Ohio, boarding was our only option. We were welcome to spend the night at their home, but a hard no to the pets. Of course, we had two large dogs and a cat, so some reluctance was understandable. Also, their children left them with pets in the past, so I am sure they were reminded of those events and wanted to remain pet-free. 

But don’t worry, as a modern grandparent, you can be ready to take on a new furry friend. With a bit of prep, a dash of patience, and a sense of humor, you’ll have the tools to handle your human and furry visitors like a pro.

Step 1: Cat-Proofing 101 (a.k.a. Protect Your Breakables!)

Cats are curious. That vase from your last trip to Poland? Yeah... It’s in danger. Before the whirlwind arrives, do a quick sweep of your home to make it cat-safe and child-safe in order to keep your favorite decor intact.

Here’s what to watch for:

• Remove fragile or wobbly items from low tables and shelves.

• Hide cords and wires, especially if the cat is a chewer.

• Secure plants and make sure none are toxic to cats (lilies, poinsettias, and aloe are no-gos).

• Close off "no-cat" zones, like your bedroom.

Think of it as baby-proofing, but for a stealthy ninja with claws.

Step 2: Create a Cozy Cat Corner

Cats need a space to call their own, especially in a new environment. Ask your grandkids to set up a little “cat corner” with familiar things from home:

• A comfy blanket or bed

• Their usual food and water bowls

• A scratching post or pad

• Some favorite toys

• The litter box (more on that in a sec)

This will help the cat settle in and feel safe — which means less stress for everyone involved.

Step 3: Let’s Talk Litter (and Where to Put It)

This part isn’t glamorous, but it’s crucial. The litter box needs to be in a quiet, low-traffic spot that’s easy for the cat to access, but not smack dab in the middle of your kitchen.

Tips:

• A laundry room, bathroom, or unused corner works well.

• Make sure it’s cleaned daily (your grandkids can help!).

• Keep it away from where the cat eats or drinks.

Trust me, your nose will thank you.

Step 4: Set Some Ground Rules (Nicely!)

If you’re not used to having pets, it’s totally okay to set boundaries. Chat with your grandkids about what’s allowed and what’s not.

For example:

• Is the cat allowed on your bed or furniture?

• Should doors be kept shut or open?

• Who’s responsible for feeding and cleaning up after the cat?

This can be a great teaching opportunity for the grandkids and helps everyone stay on the same page.

Step 5: Embrace the Chaos (and the Cuteness)

Let’s be real, things might get a little messy. Cats shed. They meow at odd hours. And yes, they might knock over a plant or two. But they also bring so much joy.

Here are some fun ways to make memories with both the grandkids and their cat:

• Storytime with a purring audience – Cats love curling up during quiet time.

• DIY toy crafting – Make a feather wand or a crinkly ball together.

• Photo sessions – Get silly and take “grandparent + grandkid + cat” selfies!

• Cat treats baking – There are tons of safe, homemade cat treat recipes online. Try one out!

And if you’re not a cat person? That’s okay too. You don’t have to cuddle the cat, just showing your grandkids that you’re open to their world goes a long way.

Hosting a Kitty Sleepover? Keep This in Mind

If the cat is staying overnight (or a few nights), here are a few more tips:

• Check for allergies – If anyone in the household has cat allergies, have a plan in place. Keep windows open, vacuum frequently, and maybe grab some allergy meds.

• Double-check the doors – Make sure screens are secure and doors are closed, especially when people are coming and going. No one wants a runaway kitty!

• Avoid people food – Grandkids love to share, but cats can’t eat things like chocolate, onions, or dairy. Watch those snack times.

What If You're Not a Cat Person?

Be honest with yourself and your grandkids. If you're feeling overwhelmed by the idea of a pet in your home, it's okay to say, "Hey, I love you, but I’m a little nervous about the cat." Open communication can lead to compromises, such as shorter visits or bringing pet supplies to minimize disruption.

And who knows? That cat might just win you over with one head bump and a slow blink.

Pawsitive Memories: Making the Most of Your Time Together

At the end of the day, it’s not about the fur on your couch or the food bowls on the floor, it’s about the memories you’re creating. When your grandkids grow up, they’ll remember how you welcomed them and their furry best friend with open arms.

Whether you’re sharing giggles over a laser pointer chase or watching them snuggle up for bedtime, these little moments build big love.