Spiritual Capital is NOT About Going to Church

Do you go to church? This is not a judgment question, just a simple question. Any church, synagogue, mosque, or temple in the past seven days? If you have, you are one of the 34% of the US adult population that regularly attend a religious service.

I was part of that statistic as a kid. I was raised Roman Catholic, more specifically, Polish Roman Catholic. Learning the hymns, memorizing the prayers, studying the procedures of genuflection, the saints, the sign of the cross, and everything in between was how, back in my day, we developed our spiritual capital.

Regardless of what we think about teaching any specific religion, in today's rapidly changing and increasingly global society, the concept of spiritual capital has expanded beyond its traditional understanding. While financial and human capital is a significant contributor to personal and societal success, an emerging and equally important type of capital has gained attention: spiritual capital. Despite differing opinions on teaching specific religions, I think it is essential to recognize the value of spiritual capital in our changing world.

Spiritual capital covers the qualities and resources that enhance our sense of purpose, meaning, and fulfillment in life. It goes beyond the religious beliefs and practices I observed as a kid. It encompasses a broader range of experiences that deepen our connection with ourselves, others, and the world around us. This insight can include a sense of awe and wonder when taking a moment to observe the wonders of nature. It's also all about knowing what's important to us, working on being a better human being, and being kind and understanding to others.

One of the reasons I enjoyed going to church was not the rituals of the service, not the gospel, and not even the halleluiah choir. What I enjoyed most was that this was the only 45 minutes that belonged to me where I could sit quietly with no devices, no distractions, and just think. Yep, think. It might be about a problem I need to solve, think about an internal conundrum, or even a chance to take time to think about the past and future.

Now, as an adult with a grandchild, I feel that I have the responsibility to help him find his special place to think about decisions to be made, some ethical debates that he might be facing, and to allow him to empower himself to lead a meaningful life. His family does not lack any financial resources, so I also want to help him find a way to contribute positively to his community. He's a smart kid, and my job is to help him tap into his inner strength and exercise the values he is being taught. Everyone's life is a series of ups and downs, and the gift I want to give him doesn't come in wrapping paper and a bow but rather the tools to navigate life's challenges with resilience and wisdom. If, in addition, he learns to recognize that his actions and choices have a ripple effect that extends beyond himself, I will be a happy grandma. We, grandparents, are in this together and have the power to reinforce and support this significant development.

So, I hope that after reading this, when you think about spiritual capital, you think beyond going to church and the religious contexts that are a part of any particular religious traditions. To me, it's more significant than that! It is what makes us human, enabling us to seek purpose and find meaning in life's often chaotic and unpredictable journey.

Let's help our grandkids learn the importance of slowing down, reflecting, and connecting with their inner selves and the world around them. Yes, we know their days are often prioritized with school, homework, and sports. How about teaching them to add prioritizing values such as compassion, kindness, and empathy? Adding these 3 points can transform not only their own lives but also the communities and societies we reside in.

Consider what we will leave behind if we help our grandkids unlock their full potential and create a more compassionate and harmonious next generation.