One special day meant everything to my mom: Mother’s Day. It was her day, a time for her to be celebrated once a year. She always made sure to spend that day with her family. Even though I was a mom too, it was her moment to shine. In my world, Mother’s Day was usually spent on the soccer field. One thoughtful coach acknowledged mothers' sacrifices to be there for the game and throughout the year. He honored us by giving each player a rose. The boys would run across the field with a flower in hand, not only for their moms but also for their grandmothers. This is a cherished memory of a rose, particularly because it was my mom’s flower.

Mother's Day can be one of the most emotional days for those who have lost their mother. While others celebrate with hugs and gifts, you may navigate a wave of grief and remembrance. However, this day can also serve as an opportunity to celebrate your mother’s life, her legacy, and the love she gave. Honoring her memory can be a beautiful and healing way to keep her spirit alive. Although it has now been ten years since she passed away, I decided to share some unique ways to memorialize the mothers we have lost but not forgotten.

Let me tell you something—back in the '80s, I was raising a kid, holding down a full-time job, and still managing diaper duty, dinner (okay, mostly reheated), and everything in between. I didn’t have a parenting app or a social media guru showing me the ropes. Gourmet meals? Please. The microwave was my best friend, and the local takeout spot knew me by name. And through it all, I rocked shoulder pads like a boss and prayed my Farrah Fawcett perm held.

Do you have a memory so intense that it feels like it was just yesterday?

We are all the sum parts of what influenced us as children, and I am no different.

Before I was ever tasked to weed a garden, I remember being amazed every summer when my grandmother’s peonies took bloom? For us it was incredible. The peonies were on the sunny side of her house