Not My Circus, Not My Monkeys: Could be a Fun Problem to Have
Did you know that circus monkeys are capuchin monkeys? Their name comes from their coloration, which resembles the cowls worn by the Capuchin order of Roman Catholic friars. When it comes to things that are not our concern, we often say, “not my circus, not my monkeys” This Polish proverb describes something we have no control over and do not want to be bothered with. Since it’s rude and inconsiderate to say, “not my problem,” especially if someone is making an un-reasonable request for your help, “it’s funnier to say not my circus, not my monkeys.” In Polish it is Nie mój cyrk, nie moje małpy. Humor-filled, yes. But still a great truth. Stay focused on what is your concern and stay focused on who is your concern. Don’t get pulled into other people’s stuff because sometimes, it’s just none of our business.
In the past, when I heard “not my circus” I saw a ringmaster, and showman directing parts of a three-ring circus. Performers, animals, workers, and equipment. The ringmaster had the whip and the authority to use it; with practiced ease, he signals where everyone should be and where they should be performing. And those performers and animals all have agreed that they will pay attention to these messages from the ringmaster. They are willingly part of the circus, accepting directions to make the show work. But what if a stranger walked into that circus and tried to take over? What a disaster would follow, nothing happening when it should or as it should. Confusion reigns as the animals go in one direction and the performers another. Even the clowns can't make this funny.
Are you ready to put on your very own circus? You'll need to decide a few things like what acts you'll include in your circus performance. We must be our own ringmasters when it comes to our grandkids with daily organized performances while they are in our big top. Become the greatest showman to the kiddos in your care. With the younger ones, tents made from blankets and sheets could get their creative juices flowing. Popcorn and peanuts as snacks could be a yummy treat. Or if the weather is cooperating, and you have a play set in the backyard, perhaps you can amaze the audience with daring tricks with the monkey bars or swings. Do you know some card tricks, or can you juggle? If you have a family pet, you'll certainly want to include an amazing animal act. Put on a performance for family members and all your neighbors. Sell popcorn and lemonade if you’re ambitions and make it an event to remember. Collect the earned dollars and cents and put them into a piggy bank with plans to donate the money to a local charity that you all agree on helping. Why a piggy bank? It's convenient, it’s easy and it can be educational. Use this opportunity as a teaching moment in math as you count the pennies, nickels, dimes, and quarters.
Remember, this is your circus, and the grandkids are your monkeys. You too can be the greatest showman, top hat, and all if you choose. See, it can be a fun problem to have.
